Browsing the archives for the Relationships category.


  • Subscribe by E-mail

    Enter your email address:

    Delivered by FeedBurner

  • Categories

  • Archives

  • Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations provided by the author of this site are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright 2001 by Crossway Bible, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
  • If You Are Interested in Other Bible Study Resources, Please Check Out the Products in My Store Below

    Getting to Did CoverCheck out the book today!Preacher's Door cover

James 4-5: Don’t Be Friends with the World

Christian Living, James, Jesus, Kingdom of God, morality, overcoming sin, Relationships, Victory in Jesus, Working for God

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who can’t see the video, click here.

No Comments

James 2-3: The #1 Way To Treat People Right in a Disagreement

Christian Living, Communication, James, preaching, Relationships, Teaching

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who can’t see the video, click here.

3 Comments

Matthew 19-20: The Purpose of Marriage

Marriage, Matthew, Relationships

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who can’t see the video, click here.

2 Comments

Colossians 3-4: Walk in Wisdom Toward Outsiders All the Time, not Just in a Bible Study

Colossians, Evangelism, Relationships

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who cannot see the video, click here.

No Comments

Romans 13-14: My Brethren are More Important Than My Rights

Christian Living, Love, Relationships, Romans

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who cannot see the video, click here.

Continue Reading »

No Comments

Acts 21-22: Have Better Relationships Today

Acts, Christian Living, Communication, Relationships

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who can’t see the video, click here.

Continue Reading »

6 Comments

Acts 17-18: Those People Around You are Part of the Family; Treat Them Like It

Acts, Christian Living, Evangelism, Relationships

This is a video post. For my e-mail subscribers who can’t see the video, click here.

Continue Reading »

2 Comments

I Thessalonians 1-2: How to Be Salt and Light

Evangelism, I Thessalonians, preaching, Relationships, Teaching, Working for God
Wordle of First Thessalonians chapters one and two from the English Standard Version

1 Thessalonians 1-2 (ESV) by Wordle*

Today’s reading is 1 Thessalonians 1:1-2:20.

“So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us” (1 Thessalonians 2: 8).

This is what being the salt of the earth and light of the world is all about (cf. Matthew 5:13-16). Being the salt of the earth means investing ourselves in the lives of others around us. Being the light of the world means inviting them with the gospel message. I think Paul’s success might be that his desire to share the gospel with others came from a genuine care for them. He didn’t simply see others as a check off on his personal evangelism chart. (Hmmm, let’s see, yes, I met my quota of 5 invitations this week.) He didn’t just desire to preach to someone, he wanted to give himself to them. That means even if they didn’t accept the gospel, he still cared about them. However, because the gospel was part of who he was, it entailed teaching them.

That is the key I have to learn. Make the gospel so much a part of me and care so much about people that I can’t help but bring the two together. Then I’ll be the salt of the earth and the light of the world. Then I’ll invest and invite.

Keep the faith and keep reading,

ELC

PS. What struck you in today’s reading? To add your input click the following link: Post a comment.

PPS. By the way, this probably stuck out to me because it fits so nicely with my recent sermon: Be Salt and Light-Invest and Invite.

2 Comments

II Corinthians 12-13: The #1 Frustration in Doing Business with Christians

Finances, Gratitude, II Corinthians, money, Relationships
Wordle of Second Corinthians chapters twelve and thirteen

2 Corinthians 12-13 (ESV) by Wordle*

Today’s reading is 2 Corinthians 12:1-13:14.

“Here for the third time I am ready to come to you. And I will not be a burden, for I seek not what is yours but you. For children are not obligated to save up for their parents, but parents for their children” (2 Corinthians 12:14).

I know Paul is dealing with his apostleship and the issue of receiving financial support from the Corinthians (which he did have a right to). But I can’t help but see a principle for relationships in the church.

I’m cheap. Actually, I’m not cheap. I just don’t want to spend much money on things I don’t like to spend money on so I can spend more money on things I do like to spend money on. Thus, I’m always looking for a deal. I always want to cut costs. My favorite line is, “Hey, do you have a discount for preachers?” I especially look at brethren who are in business and say, “Hey, what’s your brother-in-Christ discount? (wink, wink)” It is as if I think that since someone is a Christian, they ought to cut me a deal.

Now, I don’t have a problem with people giving discounts for any reason they want to. And it is not wrong to do the best we can to save money and cut costs. I’m not saying it is wrong to ask for a discount. But, I have to wonder, do I ever say, “Hey, since you are a brother in Christ, I want to pay you a little extra for this service”?

I have to ask myself whether I’m seeking the person, or what is theirs. Paul meant that his biggest concern was their souls’ salvation, not getting their money. Am I just excited that someone is a brother or sister in Christ or am I looking at that relationship as a ticket to good deals and more money?

Yes, yes, we may want to give special discounts and consideration to brethren, but I need to quit thinking that is owed. The laborer is worthy of his wages whether the person he is working for is a Christian or not.

I don’t want to set any hard and fast rules here. After all, as a dyed-in-the-wool capitalist, I know there is way more to all this discounting and selling than just a relationship in Christ. I just need to think about how I’m relating to my brethren in the business world.

Keep the faith and keep reading,

ELC

PS. What struck you in today’s reading? You can add your input by clicking the following link: Post a Comment

——————————————-

*Today’s illustration was generated by the creative tool at Wordle.net. You can find all my wordles here.

 

 

No Comments

I Corinthians 12-13: The #1 Way to be a Man

Christian Living, Growth, I Corinthians, Love, Relationships

1 Corinthians 12-13 (ESV) by Wordle*

Today’s reading is 1 Corinthians 12:1-13:13.

“When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways” (1 Corinthians 13:11).

I’ve often read this and talked about putting away the childish thing in this passage. However, today the other side of this passage struck me. What must I embrace in order to put on manhood? Love. “The greatest of these is love.” No wonder Peter caps off the list of Christian growth in II Peter 1:5-8 with love.

That’s right. The #1 way to be a man is to love. No, not to have sex. That’s what the world says. God’s way for manhood is to love. To see people as people, not objects of lust. To know they have hopes and dreams, fears and doubts, failures and victories. Then to seek their best and help them accomplish those things. To freely sacrifice self for others, not to gain anything from them or because of a sense of obligation, but simply because their good is our goal.

That’s what Jesus did for us by growing to the cross. He was a real man. I need to follow in His glorious footsteps.

Grow up! Be a man! Love!

Keep the faith and keep reading,

ELC

PS. What struck you in today’s reading? Click the following link to add your input: Click Here.

——————————————-

*Today’s illustration was generated by the creative tool at Wordle.net. You can find all my wordles here.

 

No Comments
« Older Posts


Subscribe today! Get each post in your inbox!